Dangerous Liaisons – Flirting with my Ex
If you are familiar with this blog you will know that my relationship with my ex husband was at best tumultuous.
While I was madly and sickly in love with him he seemed to be more interested in hanging out with his friends, drinking and inhaling white powder.
So many evenings I spent waiting for him, not knowing if he was coming home for dinner.
Even a phone call saying “I’ll be late” would have been great.
I was not the type to call him on the phone, I’ve never been that type.
In my eyes, a man gets out of work then comes home. If he is going out after work, he comes home, he takes a shower, changes to nice clothes and off he goes….with his wife.
Well, my ex did not understand or want to understand my needs.
But Here Is the Weird Thing
Even after all of the tears and suffering we still flirted for many years after separating and even after our final divorce.
The last time we slept together was the same night I met my now husband.
It was our first date and I just knew that it could go somewhere, I felt it deep in my core that it was time for something new.
My ex had been calling me non-stop during our date. I cut my date short and met him at one of those nasty bars that he hanged out with his friends.
He was alone, we went to one of the worst motels in the area.
It was the best fucking of my life. It was also good bye.
Little did I know that I was going to be engaged 7 months later, to someone who I mattered to and put me ahead of everything and everyone else.
But my ex and I still flirted for about a year.
Why did we flirted?
That’s a great question that I am not sure I will ever have an answer to. I did not like the way he treated me while we were together however after we broke up it was hard to tell him to stop.
After that final night I started dating my now husband and he started dating someone else but he continued trying to flirt with me. Most of the time I did not oblige. Sometimes it felt nice but most of the time I did not flat out reject it because that was the only way that I could get something for the kids. I knew that if I was abrupt with him he would not give me any money for the children.
He was that kind of asshole
Our divorce was final quickly because we did it in mutual agreement and I basically had to give in the fair amount of child support that I was supposed to get as long as he signed the papers. For a similar divorce service check out tampadivorcecenter.us they are highly recommended.
Life is weird and when it comes to emotions you just never know.